From a parent to other parents : Do not underestimate THEM



 English Avenue's Leadership Camp at the Plantation, Karak

on 29th -31st August, 2014




As an observer throughout the training camp, it was an unusually thrilling experience. I took the standpoint of a parent when I wrote this article.  I might not have known the “hidden” part of our children if they were confined to our usual indoor. This out-of-the-classroom learning has revealed to me more on their characters and serves as a positive confirmation of their social adaptive skills. It didn’t take them long to learn how to set up their own tents or set the fire for barbeque dinner. One of the nights, we were “stranded” in the heavy downpour which had drenched our dining area so badly that we had to wait for the rain to stop to take our dinner. The children were hungry but they endured without complaining. Modern parents will never allow this to happen so this is the only time the children get to experience hunger in its real sense. Food was all cleared up, no waste of food that night!


 As many people have the belief that children are too shy to express in front of their parents, I still think parents should observe the training camp to discover more about their own children’s embedded ability which most of the time is overlooked because of parental over-protectiveness.


Our students were allowed to express themselves through short sketches, they experienced how to deliver serious messages of Mother Nature through improvisation along with their choice of music. Our busy urban living has much deprived us of the chance to express, let alone stopping to say “Hi” to Mother Nature. I particularly am impressed by the way students connect themselves with nature. They were told to choose a spot in the nature-surrounded camp site, observe their surrounding and look for similarities in themselves with the nature they were in. Some compared themselves with a robust tree – they want themselves to be as useful and protective as the huge tree they saw.


Through fun games and exciting activities, there was an obvious focus on learning about worldviews and care for environment, then narrowed down to individual development, for example, encouraging our children to be adventurous and courageous to take the first step to try something new or challenging.  Let’s hope our children would retain what they have experienced and apply it at home and in school.




Written  by:
Hannah Siew
1-10-2014



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